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Wednesday, 18 December 2013

That Is My Age: Christmas Cards



I'm not sure whether it's my age or the fact that I rarely pick up a pen these days, but I seem to have lost control of my handwriting. The wobbly scrawl adorning my Christmas cards is, quite frankly, an embarrassment. It's bad enough forgetting the names of friend's spouses/children, now I even write like an old person.

But I do like the tradition of sending Christmas cards. There are people I haven't seen for decades and we still exchange festive pleasantries at the end of every year. As modern-day communication is all email, text and Twitter, I'm happy to go back to basics with a handwritten note. Christmas cards are a 170-year-old British invention thought up by Henry Cole, founder of the Victoria & Albert museum. A busy man, he designed a decorative card with a standard greeting as a time-saving device. Some things never change...



19 comments:

  1. I didn't know the cards were a Brit invention - leave it to you islanders to have artistic and gracious ideas.

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  2. I wrote mine yesterday and was shocked by my ratty scrawl. Whatever happened to my lovely handwriting?

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  3. Hi there!! Hehe I'm slacking as I haven't even written mine out yet!! Wishing you a lovely Christmas and look forward to our Affogato date next year!! xxxx

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  4. I did write a lot more Christmas Cards especially when my children were younger and I always designed individual cards.
    Glad my UK friends never let me down and send their cards very early. I often rceive lovely cards with birds, is it a British tradition?

    Annette | Lady of Style

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  5. Well, huzzah for us! Inventing the merry piece of nonsense AND Christmas crackers too. Yes, handwriting is appalling and I have become more and more enamoured of the glitter strewn village scene as years go by. It is a form of stylistic dementia, I believe. Soon I shall only be sending cards bearing coaches, crinolines and timbered wayside inns. Thank God I'm not 25...

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  6. Addressed all my cards and added hand written notes on most two days ago and woke up yesterday with pain in my elbow and horrible pain in my pailm/thumb area. Carpal tunnel? Arthritis? I did not sign up for this part of aging, thank you very much.
    But I love the tradition and had no idea it was British. Thanks for the little lesson and Merry merry!

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  7. "Now I even write like an old person"...I laughed out loud at this! But I can sure identify with handwriting that is taking a nose dive. As an English teacher, for many years I had to write comments on students' assignments, both throughout the work as well as a summary comment at the end that would summarize my feedback. Since I always thought that the final comments were the ones the students looked at more closely (maybe because they were beside the final grade?) I tended to write the others quickly. One day a student who was staring at her marked paper frowning, raised her hand and said ..."Miss, why did you write 'goo, goo, goo' all over my story?"
    "Oh," I said sheepishly, looking at my scrawl on her paper. "That's "good, good, good."
    Thank god for Google docs. In my last years of teaching students could submit works electronically and I could make comments on their papers without having to subject them to my increasingly terrible handwriting!
    Love your blog.
    Have a Merry Christmas!

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  8. I love cards too. See them as part of the Christmas decorations. Xxx

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  9. Vix & Sue B - I'm going to practise before I write next year's cards.

    Annie - I quite like a glitter strewn village. In a post-modern way, obviously. I've already got digital dementia, can't possibly have stylistic dementia too.

    NN Bartley - how many did you write?!

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  10. I make a point to use my most creative and stylish handwriting because it adds so much to the card and the meaning, imo. But I enjoy the creative effort as an exercise so I suppose it's not for everyone. I found the perfect cards this year, a macro photo of a deeply ruffled, dark crimson hibiscus that looks like velvet. I live in Hawaii so it says Mele Kalikimaka (Merry Christmas in Hawaiian, a surprisingly active language here), instead of Happy Holidays, lol!

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  11. I like sending and receiving Christmas cards too. I still write quite a lot actually - I love the feel of a pen in my hand, it makes me think more clearly, I'm sure, and I write so much faster than I type. I know - I sound ancient! xxxx

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  13. So true! I can barely read my own writing these days. I have to practice before I start addressing my christmas cards…which need to go out by tomorrow!

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  14. I love the tradition of sending christmas cards too; there's something very lovely about receiving a handwritten card or note...thank you Henry Cole!
    Wishing you a merry christmas and very happy new year xx

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  15. I love a good card, a friend and I discovered we both have grading for cards - good ones to the fore, naff ones clustered behind #cardfascist

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  16. I totally agree my handwriting is illegible even to me these days. I said I would keep a journal in 2013 just so it would make me write something but alas I did not follow through maybe in 2014. I was appalled to hear from my niece that cursive writing is not even being taught in school here in the States. I too love sending cards and handwritten notes. Merry Xmas and Happy New Year.

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  17. Thought I wasn't going to manage cards this year, but finally got them out a few days ago - had to concentrate very hard to get the writing legible (and that's me with glasses on, peering at my own writing like an old biddy) ... But I do love Christmas cards. I think it's the only time of year I look forward to the mail!

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  18. I love that Ravilious robin. I usually get my cards at the V&A.

    Have a lovely Christmas.

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  19. Lilac in May - oh I'm a total card fascist too. I hang most of my cards on a string and the naff ones are always hidden behind the more tasteful ones and then the very best cards are on the sideboard. It's a three-tier system!

    ganching - I love buying cards at the V&A, only this year I've gone for a cheaper option #austeritybritain

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